That Time She Didn't Listen.....
- Paw Life Dog Mum

- Jun 10
- 3 min read
As dog trainers, we spend countless hours teaching owners that consistency matters, rewards matter, timing matters, and that with enough practice, dogs can learn almost anything.
Then one day, our own dog reminds us that they are, in fact, still dogs.
Meet Luna.

Luna is my rescue mix-breed who went from being a nervous, anxious dog to a confident companion through a year of dedicated training, socialisation, and patience. Between living with a dog trainer and completing countless training exercises, she knows her cues well. Sit? Easy. Stay? No problem. Recall?
Usually excellent.
Usually.
One afternoon, Luna and I were outside when a cat appeared.
Now, every dog owner knows that there are certain things in life that can instantly become far more interesting than their human. For some dogs it's squirrels. For others it's birds. For Luna, it's cats.
The moment she spotted the cat, I could almost see the gears turning in her head.
"Did Mom say come?"
"Yes."
"Do I understand the command?"
"Also yes."
"Am I going to listen?"
"Absolutely not."
Before I knew it, Luna had made a decision. The cat was moving, her prey drive had switched on, and she was off.
I called.
She ignored me.
I called again.
Nothing.
At that moment, years of dog training knowledge condensed into a single uncomfortable realisation: my highly trained dog had just decided that chasing the cat was more rewarding than listening to me.
Thankfully, the cat escaped unharmed and Luna was quickly brought back under control. But in her enthusiastic pursuit, she startled one of our neighbours, who suddenly found themselves watching a determined dog sprinting across the area with far more confidence than was appreciated.
It was embarrassing.
Not because Luna had forgotten her training.
But because she hadn't.
She knew exactly what I was asking.
She simply chose something else.
This is one of the most important lessons we can teach dog owners. Training does not erase instinct. It doesn't remove prey drive, fear, excitement, frustration, or curiosity. What training does is build habits, communication, and reliability. Yet even the most reliable dog can make a poor decision when faced with something they find incredibly motivating.
The truth is that training isn't about creating a robot. It's about creating a partnership.
A well-trained dog isn't a dog that never makes mistakes. It's a dog that usually makes good choices because we've invested time in teaching them what those choices are. Sometimes, however, instinct wins a round.
What matters is what happens next.
After the incident, I didn't label Luna as "stubborn" or "disobedient." Instead, I looked at the situation objectively. Had I practised enough around cats? Was the environment too distracting? Did I need to revisit impulse-control exercises around moving animals?
The answer was yes.
Training isn't a destination. It's an ongoing conversation.
And sometimes that conversation includes your dog saying, "I hear you, but have you considered that there's a cat?"
So, if you've ever felt embarrassed because your dog ignored a command in public, welcome to the club.
Even dog trainers have those moments.
Luna certainly keeps me humble.
And while I would prefer she didn't frighten the neighbours, she did provide a valuable reminder: no matter how many certificates we earn, how many classes we teach, or how many hours we train, our dogs are still wonderfully, imperfectly, gloriously dogs.
And honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way.



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